Sunday, July 28, 2019

Colossians Chapter 4




Colossians 4:1-18 (ESV)
1  Masters, treat your bondservants justly and fairly, knowing that you also have a Master in heaven. 2  Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. 3  At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison— 4  that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak. 5  Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. 6  Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. 7  Tychicus will tell you all about my activities. He is a beloved brother and faithful minister and fellow servant in the Lord. 8  I have sent him to you for this very purpose, that you may know how we are and that he may encourage your hearts, 9  and with him Onesimus, our faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you. They will tell you of everything that has taken place here. 10  Aristarchus my fellow prisoner greets you, and Mark the cousin of Barnabas (concerning whom you have received instructions—if he comes to you, welcome him), 11  and Jesus who is called Justus. These are the only men of the circumcision among my fellow workers for the kingdom of God, and they have been a comfort to me. 12  Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ Jesus, greets you, always struggling on your behalf in his prayers, that you may stand mature and fully assured in all the will of God. 13  For I bear him witness that he has worked hard for you and for those in Laodicea and in Hierapolis. 14  Luke the beloved physician greets you, as does Demas. 15  Give my greetings to the brothers at Laodicea, and to Nympha and the church in her house. 16  And when this letter has been read among you, have it also read in the church of the Laodiceans; and see that you also read the letter from Laodicea. 17  And say to Archippus, “See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.” 18  I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand. Remember my chains. Grace be with you.

1  Masters, treat your bondservants justly and fairly, knowing that you also have a Master in heaven.

1. Why does verse 1 seem out of context with the rest of the chapter?

This verse should have been added to the preceding, to which it properly belongs; and this chapter should have begun with Colossians 4:2. ACC

The chapter divisions commonly used today were developed by Stephen Langton, an Archbishop of Canterbury. Langton put the modern chapter divisions into place in around A.D. 1227. The Wycliffe English Bible of 1382 was the first Bible to use this chapter pattern. Since the Wycliffe Bible, nearly all Bible translations have followed Langton's chapter divisions. http://www.gotquestions.org/divided-Bible-chapters-verses.html#ixzz3bA7Y549M

2. Is Paul endorsing slavery?

 Paul does not condone the Roman system of servitude but instead provides instructions to believing masters and slaves (or bondservants) regarding their relationship to each other in the Lord. Such instruction clearly sows the seeds for the
eventual dismantling of this unjust socioeconomic structure. ESVN

Masters should remember that they have a Master too. This view should transform how they regard and treat their slaves. Interestingly throughout history wherever Christians have constituted a significant segment of the population and have followed Paul’s directions here, the slave system has died. The principles in these verses (3:22—4:1) are, of course, applicable to employer-employee relationships as well. CN

2  Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. 3  At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison— 4  that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak.

3. Exactly what is Paul asking of the Colossian believers? \


These two words go together: Pray and watch. They are very important. They remind us of the experience of Nehemiah. When the enemy tried to stop him from rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem, he didn’t just throw in the towel and cry out that he couldn’t do the job. Nor did he simply say, “Well, we’ll make it a matter of prayer,” and then go on as he had been. No, this is what Nehemiah said: “Nevertheless we made our prayer unto our God, and set a watch against them day and night, because of them” (Neh. 4:9). This is what Paul tells us here: Watch and pray. JVM

a. Continue earnestly in prayer: Paul supported the Colossian church through His prayers for them (Col. 1:3-8). Their life and ministry would continue to prosper through continued vigilance in prayer, including prayer on their part.

i. The ancient Greek word translated continue is "Built on a root meaning 'to be strong,' it always connotes earnest adherence to a person or thing. In this passage it implies persistence and fervor." (Vaughan)

ii. This sort of earnest  prayer is important, but does not come easy. Earnestly in prayer speaks of great effort steadily applied. "Heaven's gate is not to be stormed by one weapon but by many. Spare no arrows, Christian. Watch and see that none of the arms in thy armoury are rusty. Besiege the throne of God with a hundred hands, and look at the promise with a hundred eyes. You have a great work on hand for you have to move the arm that moves the world; watch, then, for every means of moving that arm. See to it that you ply every promise; that you use every argument; that you wrestle with all might." (Spurgeon)

b. Being vigilant in it with thanksgiving: We are to be vigilant in prayer, but always praying with thanksgiving for the great things God has done.

i. Barclay on vigilant: "Literally the Greek means to be wakeful. The phrase could well mean that Paul is telling them not to go to sleep when they pray." Sometimes, because of the tiredness of our body or mind, we struggle against sleep when we pray. Other times we pray as if we were asleep, and our prayers simply sound and feel tired and sleepy.

ii. "Prayer should be mingled with praise. I have heard that in New England after the Puritans had settled there a long while, they used to have very often a day of humiliation, fasting, and prayer, till they had so many days of fasting, humiliation, and prayer, that at last a good senator proposed that they should change it for once, and have a day of thanksgiving." (Spurgeon)
iii. "The connection here with thanksgiving may suggest the threefold rhythm: intercession, 'watching' for answers to prayer, and thanksgiving when answers appear." (Wright)

c. Meanwhile praying also for us: Paul seemed to say, "As long as we are on the subject of prayer, please pray for us!" But Paul didn't ask for prayer for his personal needs (which were many), but that God would open to us a door for the word.

i. The same word picture of an open door as an open opportunity for the gospel is seen in passages such as Act. 14:27, 1Co. 16:9, and 2Co. 2:12.

d. As I ought to speak: Even though Paul was in chains for his faithfulness to the gospel, he knew that he ought to speak it in a way that would make it manifest (clearly evident). Paul wanted prayer that he would continue to make the gospel clear and evident, even if it meant more chains.

i. Robertson comments on Paul's words, as I ought to speak: "Wonderful as Paul's preaching was to his hearers and seems to us, he was never satisfied with it. What preacher can be?"  David Guzik’s Commentary

5  Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time.  6  Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.



4. What is the message here?



With respect to his readers’ relationship to unbelievers, Paul counseled the use of wisdom as most important. This involves living life in the light of God’s revelation and then applying this knowledge to specific situations. The Greek word translated “opportunity” (kairos, lit. time) probably implies the opportune time, as it does in some other places. The opportunity in view seems to be the opportunity to bring others into full union with Christ.





Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.  
2 Cor. 5:20-21


Paul turned from thinking about his readers’ walk to their talk. The most important thing to keep in mind regarding the Colossians’ own practices involved their speech. Speech most effectively expresses what is inside the believer. The Christian’s speech should mirror the gracious character and conduct of his or her God by demonstrating
love, patience,sacrifice, undeserved favor, etc. CN





We are representing our boss. That sales rep who calls on you is nice to you and buys you lunch because he is representing his company, product, or brand. He always has in the back of his mind that he is not speaking for himself and his job to help you understand how you can’t live without what he is selling. When we speak to unbelievers we should always be aware that this contact might be the only opportunity to see Christ. What impression do you want to leave him with? Do you really want to come across as some churchy, holy than thou, hypocritical, bible thumper?

Paul encourages the Colossians to manifest a powerful and attractive testimony to non-Christians. seasoned with salt. This statement echoes the teaching of Jesus when he called his disciples to be “the salt of the earth” (Matt. 5:13). When applied to conversation, the metaphor suggests speaking in an interesting, stimulating, and wise way. Paul’s comments assume that the Colossian believers are vitally involved in the local community and have ample opportunities to interact with outsiders in a way that would commend the gospel to them. ESVN

Walk in wisdom—Act wisely and prudently in reference to them who are without—who yet continue unbelieving Gentiles or persecuting Jews.

The Church of Christ was considered an enclosure; a field, or vineyard, well hedged or walled. Those who were not members of it, were considered without; i.e. not under that especial protection and defense which the true followers of Christ had. This has been since called "The pale of the Church," from palus, a stake; or, as Dr. Johnson defines it, "A narrow piece of wood, joined above and below to a rail, to enclose grounds." As to be a Christian was essential to the salvation of the soul, so to be in the Church of Christ was essential to the being a Christian; therefore it was concluded that "there was no salvation out of the pale of the Church." Now this is true in all places where the doctrines of Christianity are preached; but when one description of people professing Christianity, with their own peculiar mode of worship and creed, arrogate to themselves, exclusive of all others, the title of The Church; and then, on the ground of a maxim which is true in itself, but falsely understood and applied by them, assert that, as they are The Church, and there is no Church besides, then you must be one of them, believe as they believe, and worship as they worship, or you will be infallibly damned; I say, when this is asserted, every man who feels he has an immortal spirit is called on to examine the pretensions of such spiritual monopolists. Now, as the Church of Christ is formed on the foundation of the prophets and apostles, Jesus Christ being the chief corner stone, the doctrines of this Christian Church must be sought for in the sacred Scriptures. As to fathers, councils, and human authorities of all kinds, they are, in this question, lighter than vanity; the book of God alone must decide. The Church, which has been so hasty to condemn all others, and, by its own soi disant or self-constituted authority, to make itself the determiner of the fates of men, dealing out the mansions of glory to its partisans, and the abodes of endless misery to all those who are out of its antichristian and inhuman pale; this Church, I say, has been brought to this standard, and proved by the Scriptures to be fallen from the faith of God's elect, and to be most awfully and dangerously corrupt; and to be within its pale, of all others professing Christianity, would be the most likely means of endangering the final salvation of the soul. Yet even in it many sincere and upright persons may be found, who, in spirit and practice, belong to the true Church of Christ. Such persons are to be found of all religious persuasions, and in all sorts of Christian societies.

Redeeming the time
Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt—Let it be such as has a tendency to oppose and preserve from the corruption of sin. The rabbins say: "He who, in prayer, omits any word, should begin again at the beginning; for he who does not is like boiled pottage, in which there is no salt." Berachoth, fol. 34, 1. Let all your conversation be such as may tend to exemplify and recommend Christianity; let it not only be holy, but wise, gracious, and intelligent. A harsh method of proposing or defending the doctrines of Christianity only serves to repel men from those doctrines, and from the way of salvation. Salt, from its use in preserving food from corruption, and rendering it both savoury and wholesome, has always been made the emblem of wisdom. The word has been also used to express in composition or conversation what is terse, comprehensive, useful, elegant, and impressive. The term Attic salt has been used to express some of the principal beauties of the Greek tongue; of such beauties the Gospel of Christ has an endless store. How ye ought to answer every man—That your discourse may be so judiciously managed, that ye may discern how to treat the prejudices and meet the objections both of Jews and Gentiles. ACC

5. Who are all these people?

7  Tychicus will tell you all about my activities. He is a beloved brother and faithful minister and fellow servant in the Lord. 8  I have sent him to you for this very purpose, that you may know how we are and that he may encourage your hearts,

Tychicus was a native of Asia Minor who became a Christian and a member of Paul’s ministry team (Acts 20:4). He will carry this letter (as well as Ephesians and Philemon;) and bring them news about Paul and his situation. ESVN

Paul sent Tychicus with this letter for two primary purposes. He wanted to provide more information about himself and his present ministry than he felt led to record in this letter. He also wanted to encourage the Colossians. In relation to all other Christians Tychicus was a beloved brother. In relation to Christ he was a faithful servant. In relation to Paul he was a fellow-bondslave either both as a prisoner of Rome and to the will of God, or just to the will of God. Tychicus’ name occurs five times in association with Paul in the New Testament (Acts 20:4; Eph. 6:21;Col. 4:7; Titus 3:12; 2 Tim. 4:12). CN



9  and with him Onesimus, our faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you. They will tell you of everything that has taken place here.

“Onesimus” was a slave of Philemon in Colosse. He had run away from his master, had been led to the Lord through the ministry of Paul, and was now being sent back to his master by him. Paul wrote a letter to Philemon when he sent Onesimus back, and he tells Philemon that Onesimus is his “beloved brother.” You can see from this that there is a new relationship in Christ. Master and slave are now brothers in Christ Jesus. JVM

10  Aristarchus my fellow prisoner greets you,

Aristarchus my fellow-prisoner. Aristarchus was of Thessalonica, and is mentioned in Acts 19:29, 20:4, as Paul's companion in his travels. In Acts 27:2, it is said that he accompanied him in his voyage to Rome, and from the passage before us it appears that he was there imprisoned with him. As he held the same sentiments as Paul, and was united with him in his travels and labours, it was natural that he should be treated in the same manner. He, together with Gaius, had been seized in the tumult at Ephesus, and treated with violence; but he adhered to the apostle in all his troubles, and attended him in all his perils. Nothing further is certainly known of him, though the Greeks say that he was bishop of Assamea in Syria, and was beheaded with Paul at Rome, under Nero." CalmetBarnes' Notes on the New Testament.

and Mark the cousin of Barnabas (concerning whom you have received instructions—if he comes to you, welcome him),

Mark is here spoken of as the cousin of Barnabas. This young man had started out with Paul and Barnabas in missionary labors. Because of his failure, Paul decided that he should be left at home, but Barnabas insisted on taking him with him. This caused a rift between the two older workers. However, it is good to learn that Mark’s failure was not final, and he is now restored to the confidence of the beloved Paul.  If Mark should visit Colosse, the saints there are told to welcome him. The expression about whom you received instructions does not necessarily mean that the Colossians had previously received instructions concerning Mark. It may refer to the instructions which Paul is now giving to them: If he comes to you, welcome him. The tense of the verb received may simply mean that by the time the Colossians read this Letter, they would have received instructions. Believers Bible Commentary

Mark is here spoken of as the cousin of Barnabas. This young man had started out with Paul and Barnabas in missionary labors. Because of his failure, Paul decided that he should be left at home, but Barnabas insisted on taking him with him. This caused a rift between the two older workers. However, it is good to learn that Mark’s failure was not final, and he is now restored to the confidence of the beloved Paul.

If Mark should visit Colosse, the saints there are told to welcome him. The expression about whom you received instructions does not necessarily mean that the Colossians had previously received instructions concerning Mark. It may refer to the instructions which Paul is now giving to them: If he comes to you, welcome him. The tense of the verb received may simply mean that by the time the Colossians read this Letter, they would have received instructions. JVM

11  and Jesus who is called Justus. These are the only men of the circumcision among my fellow workers for the kingdom of God, and they have been a comfort to me.

And Jesus which is called Justus. The name Jesus was probably that which he bore among the Jews. Justus is a Roman name, and was probably that by which he was known among the Romans. It was not uncommon thus to assume another name when one went among a foreign people. Comp. Acts 13:9. Who are of the circumcision. Jews, or Jewish Christians. Nothing more is knows of Justus. Barnes' Notes on the New Testament.

12  Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ Jesus, greets you, always struggling on your behalf in his prayers, that you may stand mature and fully assured in all the will of God.
13  For I bear him witness that he has worked hard for you and for those in Laodicea and in Hierapolis.

Epaphras, who is one of you. Probably one of the founders of the church at Colossae. He brought Paul news of the conditions in the church. Always laboring fervently for you in prayers. Strenuous intercession, wrestling with God on their behalf. KJV Bible Commentary

14  Luke the beloved physician greets you,

Luke is another here mentioned, whom he calls the beloved physician. This is he who wrote the Gospel and Acts, and was Paul’s companion. Observe, He was both a physician and an evangelist. Christ himself both taught and healed, and was the great physician as well as prophet of the church. He was the beloved physician; one who recommended himself more than ordinary to the affections of his friends. Skill in physic is a useful accomplishment in a minister and may be improved to more extensive usefulness and greater esteem among Christians.

as does Demas.  

Demas. Whether this was written before the second epistle to Timothy or after is not certain. There we read (2 Tim. 4:10), Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world. Some have thought that this epistle was written after; and then it is an evidence that, though Demas forsook Paul, yet he did not forsake Christ; or he forsook him but for a time, and recovered himself again, and Paul forgave him and owned him as a brother. But others think more probably that this epistle was written before the other; this in anno 62, that in 66, and then it is an evidence how considerable a man Demas was, who yet afterwards revolted. Many who have made a great figure in profession, and gained a great name among Christians, have yet shamefully apostatized: They went forth from us, because they were not of us, 1 Jn. 2:19. Matthew Henry's commentary on the whole Bible

and to Nympha and the church in her house.

Nympha and the church. A church met in her house, probably in Laodicea.

16  And when this letter has been read among you, have it also read in the church of the Laodiceans; and see that you also read the letter from Laodicea. 17  And say to Archippus, “See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.” 18  I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand. Remember my chains. Grace be with you.

6. What Letters?

When this letter is read among you. This letter was to be publicly read in the churches in Colossae and in Laodicea. letter … from Laodicea. A separate letter from Paul, usually identified as the epistle to the Ephesians. The oldest manuscripts of Ephesians do not contain the words “in Ephesus,” indicating that in all likelihood it was a circular letter intended for several churches in the region. Tychicus may have delivered Ephesians to the church at Laodicea first. MSBN

Archippus seems to have been Philemon’s son (Phile. 2). Perhaps he was a gifted young man whom Paul wished to encourage. The idea that he was the present leader of the Colossian church is a possibility that some commentators have suggested. CN

7. What is special about Paul’s salutation?



Paul normally used a secretary to write his letters and then added a personal word at the end in his own handwriting to authenticate his authorship (cf. Rom. 16:22Gal. 6:11). Here he requested his readers’ prayers for him in his house arrest in Rome (cf. vv. 3-4). Finally he wished that God’s continuing unmerited favor would be their portion (cf. 1:2).
Why did Paul include so many personal references to friends and acquaintances in this epistle? Perhaps he had never visited these Christians and they knew him only by reputation (cf. 2:1). Probably since he had lived and ministered in Asia Minor for three years he would have had personal contact with some of the saints in Colosse. Evidently he sent many personal greetings because he had many friends in Colossae. Paul also sent many personal greetings to the Christians in Rome though he had not yet visited Rome when he wrote his epistle to them (cf. Rom. 16). CN

At this point, the apostle took the pen in his own hand and signed his closing salutation with his Gentile name Paul. Doubtless as he did so the chains on his hands proved an inconvenience in writing, but it reminded him to say to the Colossians: Remember my chains. “The sound of pen and chains together is the final sign that the preacher’s chains cannot bind the Word of God.”  Then he closed the Epistle with the words Grace be with you. Amen. A. T. Robertson writes: “There is no richer word than the word ‘grace,’ for it carries in it all of God’s love as seen in the gift of His Son for us.” Amen. Believer's Bible Commentary

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Colossians Chapter 3




  Colossians 3:1-17 (ESV) 
1  If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.
2  Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.
3  For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.

4  When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.

5  Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
6  On account of these the wrath of God is coming.
7  In these you too once walked, when you were living in them.
8  But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.
9  Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices
10  and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.
11  Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all.

12  Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,
13  bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.
14  And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
15  And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.
16  Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
17  And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

1. What is a person’s character?
When Martin Luther King said he looked forward to the day when all Americans would be judged solely “by the content of their character,” he was talking about a person’s essential qualities. “the distinctive nature of a person or thing,” a meaning reflected in the word’s origins. In Greek, a kharaktēr was a stamping tool, used to give something a distinctive mark. What are the qualities that result from his basic beliefs and assumptions?
2. As a Christian how are we to deal with the old nature which continually attempts to control our actions?
For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I. 16 If then I do that which I would not, ……. But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members. 24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death? Romans 7:15-24
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 2 Cor 5:17 (KJV)
I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. Gal 2:20 (ESV)
Paul tells us to put to death that old nature. The Greek word I nekrosate First aorist active imperative of nekroō, to kill. This is a verb or action word. In verse 9 he also uses the term, put away, ἀποτίθημι apotithemi (ap-ot-eeth’-ay-mee) v.1. to put away cast off, lay apart (aside, down), put away (off) , and then in verse 12 he says put on ἐνδύω enduo (en-doo’-o) v.1. to invest with clothing (in the sense of sinking into a garment) array, clothe (with), endue, have (put) on.
Notice Paul uses three verbs or action words which would seem to indicate that we actually have to do something. We can’t just rest in the fact that I am a Christian and some supernatural power will take over and I will just automatically live righteously. 
3. In verse 14 Paul tells us to “put on love”, how do I put on a feeling?
ἀγάπη agape (ag-ah’-pay) benevolence: an other centered attitude for the benefit of others and not yourself. Even though agape is a noun, Paul is telling us to put this other centered attitude on. Again something we have to consciously make a decision to do.When that smelly, no teeth guy at grocery store asks you for money to buy food and you give him that gift certificate from Mc Donalds. Then he throws it back in your face and flips you off. That’s when you need to put on love.That’s when you need to remember who you are and renew your mind.
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Romans 12:2 (KJV)
The normal reaction would be to get mad and call him a worthless freeloader. The new creation in Christ picks up his gift certificate and goes on his way.
A Centered Home: Colossians 3:18-21
18 Wives, be submissive to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives and don’t be bitter toward them. 20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so they won’t become discouraged.
4. What does “submissive” mean?
ὑποτάσσω hupotasso (hoop-ot-as’-so) v. 1. to subordinate submit self unto The verb hupotassomai has a military air, common in the Koiné for such obedience. Obedience in government is essential as the same word . Wives have rights and privileges, but recognition of the husband’s leadership is essential to a well-ordered home, only the assumption is that the husband has a head and a wise one.
Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Eph 5:24 (ESV)
This has nothing to do with husbands being dictators or kings over there households. This is about structure and responsibility. Who is generally built and designed to function as the decision maker in certain situation? Men and women are different. There are some very subjective and intuitive gifts that my wife has that I do not. My wife thinks globally, taking into consideration all the connecting issues and effects of an action and doing this pretty much intuitively. I on the other hand am much more pragmatic and black and white. What do we have to do to fix the situation, now? So this has more to do with administration than subjugation. I had no problem submitting to my employers. We had an arrangement. They treated me with respect, they listened to my input, but in the final analysis they had the final responsibility and the final say.
5. What about the husband, what does he have to do?
Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7 (ESV)
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, Eph5:25
But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 1 Cor 11:3 (ESV)
For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. 1 Tim 2:13-14 (ESV)
God holds the man responsible for his household. Eve was tricked but Adam was not, he knew exactly what he was doing. He wanted to be like God, so he was the responsible party.
6. How can we discipline our children not exasperate them?
The King James uses the word provoke ἐρεθίζω erethizo (er-eth-id’-zo) v. 1. tostimulate (especially to anger). To provoke one to anger.
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Prov. 22:6).
Each child is an individual and different tactics must be used to motivate them without breaking their spirits.


  BDB………….. Barclay’s Daily Study Bible (NT) 
• ESV………….ESV Study Bible Notes 
• MSN…….MacArthur NASB Study Notes 
• NIVSN…..NIV Study Notes. 
• JVM ….J Vernon McGee,
 • ACC …. Adam Clarke’s Commentary 
• BN …..Barnes Notes 
• WBC…… Wycliffe Bible Commentary 
• CN …… Constables Notes 
• IC……….Ironside Commentary
• NET………Net Bible Study Notes. 
• JFB…………..Jamieson Fausset Brown Commentary
 • VWS……………..Vincent Word Studies 
• CMM………….Commentary on Matthew and Mark • 
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